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Family Experience Questionnaire

Your family has more influence than you think. Survival messages are psychologically encoded and sent through the generations, stored in what’s called your mitochondria. These are cells that contribute to how you are ‘programmed’ to manage stress. Tyrants are high stress so therefore to help you, we need to know if there is any indication of cross-generational extended stress factors which is why we ask you to complete the family questionnaire.

You may have been ‘programmed’ to never talk about the family or answer probing questions about them. If that’s the case, we ask that you step over that conditioning because we are here to assist you not judge you.

Our family experience as a child has an impact on our adult life because messaging gets buried in the unconscious. The purpose of this questionnaire is for us to see how much of an impact on your adult life your early experiences may have had on your unconscious, and will therefore give us a distinct indication of what will be required to free you from the tyrant currently impacting you.

Please answer every question with the first thing you feel (your instinct) from your childhood perspective, not from your adult self. Please refrain from applying logic, your instinct please because we find it gives more accurate answers.
1.Your name:(Required.)
2.Your email address? (so we can match these answers to the booking you just made)(Required.)
3.Did you feel loved as a child?(Required.)
4.Were you comforted / cuddled?(Required.)
5.Did you have privacy?(Required.)
6.Were family meal times comfortable?(Required.)
7.Did you feel comfortable asking questions?(Required.)
8.Did you feel your parents were emotionally available?(Required.)
9.Were you actively encouraged to get on well with siblings?(Required.)
10.Did you feel good enough?(Required.)
Almost there, please now answer these last questions below and then submit your answers.
11.Did a parent drink too much?(Required.)
12.Did family members gang up on you?(Required.)
13.Did you ever feel like you walked on eggshells?(Required.)
14.Was attention withheld if you did something that wasn’t approved of?(Required.)
15.Were you or a sibling the golden child?(Required.)
16.Do you feel a lot of tension and pressure?(Required.)
17.Were your parent(s) often overly involved in your life?(Required.)
18.Did you experience the silent treatment?(Required.)
19.Were your parents overly concerned with what others think?(Required.)
20.Did your parent(s) act like they cared but it didn’t feel like they did?(Required.)
21.Did something regularly have to be their idea for it to be accepted?(Required.)
22.Were you humiliated / teased?(Required.)
23.Was one or both of your parents very charismatic when they wanted to be?(Required.)
What happens next?

When you click the [Please submit my answers] button below you will be automatically taken onto Part #4: Taming The Tyrant Narcissist Profile Matrix.

We encourage you to submit your Matrix as soon as possible because it is the last and most insightful part.